“What would you do if you weren’t afraid?”
Spencer Johnson, Who moved my cheese
I have just finished reading the book “Lean In” by Sheryl Sandberg.
I was curious when I started reading because really the only feedback I had heard about it was Sandberg was preaching that women need to try harder (“lean in”) which was easy for her to say with a huge salary and a nanny.
That wasn’t the message that I got from the book though.
I am definitely guilty of being over modest about my achievements and sometimes allowing self doubt to hold me back. Sandberg explores the reasons why women are more likely than men to act this way as well as looking at how even in the 21st Century attitudes can inhibit women from aspiring to senior business roles.
In the first chapter of the book Sandberg explores the quote above and it really resonated with me: being afraid could be something as simple as being too embarrassed to speak out in a meeting where everyone else is agreeing.
This year I have made a resolution to look out for times when being afraid stops me from doing something and then challenge myself to overcome the fear.